Musical Monday: The Perfect Mother’s Day Gift

Saturday night, my family and I enjoyed a delicious dinner at Bahama Breeze and then drove over to Clearwater Beach to catch a glimpse of one our beautiful Florida sunsets.

 

 

Watching my children play in the sugar white sands of Clearwater Beach with a gorgeous sunset as a backdrop was truly the best gift ever and the amazing songs that played on XM’s The Coffee House captured the mood of the evening superbly.

 

 

But the smiles on everyone’s faces that night was the ribbon that tied the whole package together for the perfect Mother’s Day gift.

 

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Where My Mother Fathers At?

Yeah, boy.  We’ll be rolling in our Swagger Wagon today. This goes out to all the mini-van, mamas. Word to the mothers.

 

 

Nothing like a little viral marketing to celebrate Mother’s Day.  Enjoy your day!

 

Happy Mother’s Day from Run DMT!

Sweet Angel Julia

Two years have passed since Julia left us.  Despite the time that has passed and everyone trying to move past the pain, it’s difficult to celebrate Cinco de Mayo and Mother’s Day without remembering that this was the week Julia left us.  I will always remember our Cinco de Mayo playdate as the last time I saw Julia and feel less than festive because of that memory.

 

 

Two years ago, fevers ran rampant throughout my mom’s group.  Several kids had contracted strep throat and other bizarre illnesses with high fevers.  Then like bad déjà vu, those strange viruses began surfacing again this week. I comforted my poor sick four year old, but my heart ached as I remembered how little Julia was exposed to something viral this same week, however, the true cause of her untimely passing would remain undetermined.

 

Several of us sent prayers of comfort to the Bradley Family this week.  I am constantly amazed by Jackie’s strength and her ability to pick up the pieces after such a tragic event.  Even last night, as a group of close friends laughed over drinks about silly, girlie nonsense, we knew that in a few short hours Jackie and her family would face the anniversary of losing Julia, a pain no parent should ever have to feel and yet so surreal that your brain refuses to comprehend it and your heart won’t allow you to let go of it.

 

 

Last December, the Bradley Family celebrated the birth of their third child, Jackson.  When I look at this precious boy, I see Julia and it’s beautiful to know that a piece of her is still with us.

 

 

This morning on Facebook, Jackie posted a message of thanks with one small request when remembering Julia today.

 

Two years ago today our sweet angel, Julia, went to heaven. We miss her so much and are so thankful to have so many friends and family thinking about her today. In memory of Julia…please take a moment to do something special with your kids this weekend!

 

* Although I didn’t take any of these pictures, I felt compelled to share photos of Julia and her story for this week’s Photo Story Friday.*

 

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Crystal Mango Winner

One lucky winner has been selected for the Lovely Chaos necklace designed by Crystal Mango

 

 

Congratulations to Doreen! Enjoy your new necklace.

 

A big THANK YOU to everyone who participated in the giveaway and another big THANK YOU to Crystal Mango for designing an exclusive, elegant piece for this Mother’s Day contest! Your support made this giveaway a huge success!  Keep following Run DMT and Crystal Mango and watch for other giveaways coming soon. :-)

Flatlining or Steady Heartbeat?

With expecting a new baby, Allan and I decided to change churches and a few weeks ago, we began the process by participating in the church’s membership class. It’s been an interesting journey offering many opportunities for self-discovery. Each week is like a little workshop that delves into understanding yourself, your role in the church and how it all leads up to serving God. Last week, we searched for our heartbeat and I realized I have no pulse.

 

Your spiritual heartbeat is defined by your passion. What motivates you? What lights your fire and fulfills you? How does your passion serve God?

 

I could easily answer the first and second questions. I am passionate about so many things: my family, my children, my friends, running, writing, my mom’s group, teaching, connecting with people, charitable acts, politics, women’s issues, humanity and the environment. But for this week’s assignment, we had to tie it all up in a neat little bow with a concise label and for me, my passions didn’t seem related to one another. Each of these things is so different from one another, how do they ultimately lead me to serving God?

 

I knew I needed to pray about it and have daily conversations with God to find the answer. The search for my heartbeat continued for days after last Sunday’s membership class, but I knew eventually the answer would arrive.

 

While waiting for an answer or some sort of sign from God, my thoughts were also preoccupied with my friend, Jackie. It would be two years since her daughter, Julia, passed and I knew this week would be difficult for her. As I prayed for her family every day, by chance I bumped into her at our Target. I hugged her told her that she was in my thoughts and if she needed anything, I would be there for her.

 

An hour after seeing Jackie, I received an e-mail stating that I had been selected for a paid writing job. Then the next day, one of my posts was featured on WordPress’s homepage. Some might call these occurrences simply a coincidence but for me, it was the validation I needed. The things that I was most passionate about were also the things that God recognized as my heartbeat.

 

Although I still can’t put a label on any of it and fit in all into one neat little package, I understand a bit more about what fulfils me even though I knew it all along, but now I understand how it all relates to serving God. These things (running, organizing my mom’s group, being there for my family and friends) don’t drain me. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. They fill me up with fervor and conviction.

 

So, what is my heartbeat? “Living life in a way that helps others”

 

Whether it’s being a SAHM, volunteering at my daughters’ school, leading a moms group, organizing a food or a collection for the needy, writing about my life and all it encompasses (running, children, friends, etc) IS my heartbeat. I am passionate about it all.  By simply being me, I am is serving God and helping others. I live life to the fullest.

 

My life is my heartbeat.

 


I Speak for the Seas

For years, I have protested off-shore drilling simply because the idea of an oil rig sitting off in the distance of our eco-sensitive Gulf shores (even 125 miles off shore) never sat well with me and my stance on the issue caused many heated debates with friends. As Sarah Palin, the GOP and their supporters shout “Drill, Baby, Drill!” with our Gulf waters their prime target, the prospect of oil rigs erecting in our coral reefs appeared imminent and the idea continued to make me ill and furious.

 

My friends would argue about it lessening our dependence of foreign oil and I would discuss the importance of seeking alternate energy sources.  Since we had opposing viewpoints, the arguments always seemed moot and only led to me writing my representatives to voice my concerns.

 

I am the Lorax. I speak for the seas.
I speak for the seas, for the seas have no tongues.
And we simply cannot go drilling
Along as we please.

 

Then, just weeks before Earth Day, President Obama agreed to explore more off-shore drilling options and my heart sank like a sunken treasure to the bottom of the Gulf of Mexico.  It appeared that I had lost every argument along with every hope of keeping our coral reefs rig free.  Now, I sat in the same boat as Al Gore and Flipper , because oil is the thneed which everyone needs.

 

 

Then, like an ironic twist of fate, an oil rig exploded off the shores of Louisiana the day before Earth Day.  As black sludge and smoke overshadowed our green “Save the Earth” celebrations, we mourned the loss of the 11 men who died in the explosion as well as the loss of our precious wetlands and a fishing economy which thrived from those waters.

 

With more than 210,000 gallons of oil pouring into the Gulf a day, experts predict that the oil spreading throughout the Gulf will surpass the oil spill created by the Exxon Valdez in approximately two months. Now, like many other Florida residents, I worry and wait to see how the oil spill will affect our wildlife, our beaches, our tourism, our economy and our livelihood.

 

On Saturday evening, my family and I ate at our favorite waterfront restaurant to soak up our beautiful Gulf view before the oil washes upon our shores.

 

 

In the meantime, I’ve stocked up on Dawn dish detergent to help clean up the oil slick Swomee-Swans and the Humming-Fish when they arrive to escape the Gluppity-Glupp and Schloppity-Schlopp.

 

 

 

Excerpts from Dr. Suess’s The Lorax

I am the Lorax,” he coughed and he whiffed.
He sneezed and he snuffled. He snarggled. He sniffed.
“Once-ler!” he cried with a cruffulous croak.
“Once-ler! You’re making such smogulous smoke!
My poor Swomee-Swans… why, they can’t sing a note!
No one can sing who has smog in his throat.

 

And so,” said the Lorax,
“-please pardon my cough-
they cannot live here.
So I’m sending them off.

“Where will they go?
I don’t hopefully know.

They may have to fly for a month… or a year…
To escape from the smog you’ve smogged up around here.”

 

“What’s more,” snapped the Lorax. (His dander was up.)
“Let me say a few words about Gluppity-Glupp.
Your machine chugs on, day and night without stop
making Gluppity-Glupp. Also Schloppity-Schlopp.
And what do you do with this leftover goo?
I’ll show you. You dirty old Once-ler man, you!

 

“You’re glumping the pond where the Humming-Fish hummed!
No more can they hum, for their gills are all gummed.
So I’m sending them off. Oh, their future is dreary.
They’ll walk on their fins and get woefully weary
in search of some water that isn’t so smeary.”

 

“But now,” says the Once-ler,
“Now that you’re here,
the word of the Lorax seems perfectly clear.
UNLESS someone like you
cares a whole awful lot,
nothing is going to get better.
It’s not.

Taking a Holiday with Madeleine

Madeleine Peyroux keeps slipping into The Coffee House on XM and every time I hear her haunting voice, my mind slips away which isn’t the safest thing to do while operating a motor vehicle.

 

 

Her soft, sultry enigmatic sound reminds me of Billie Holiday and it’s as if she is channeling Ms. Holiday’s spirit.  Her jazzy, bluesy style makes me want to curl up on the couch and sip a glass of wine while my mind drifts away to another era.

 

 

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